Molesters, Enablermolesters And Lifetime Parole
Sunday, January 9, 2011
Adult Crippled Children of Women Enablermolesters World Wide
Emotional disability prevents kids from having a permanent reality and affects every aspect of their life. The abuse can be sexual, physical or emotional and a national survey shows increases in child abuse and other child victimization - davidfinkelhor@unh.edu
Child abuse and porn have been in the news again over the last year. The vast majority of abusers admit to viewing porn before sexually abusing kids (Citizens For Decency Through Law/Charles Keating). Why does it go on so long before being reported? Please do the right thing upon first-hand knowledge of child abuse and report it whether you are the parent, relative, friend or neighbor. These are the people that do most of the abusing not strangers. From personal experience I can tell you that child abuse affects one's adult life also.
Friday, December 10, 2010
Molesters, Enablermolesters And Lifetime Parole: Impact of Women Enablermolesters - Number of Occur...
Impact of Women Enablermolesters - Number of Occurrences in Stereotypical Home
There are at least 75 million children under the age of 18 (World Almanac And Book of Facts 2011, p 616). 33% of girls and 14% of boys are molested before the age of 18 (Department of Justice, citizensfordecenfythroughlaw./Charles Keating - google and wikipedia) equalling 33 million single child abuses in a period of 18 years (this is only 2 million per year, what's wrong with this picture? - the accepted figure is 3 million abuses per year). Most children are abused by parental figures, relatives and close friends. In a stereotypical abusive family, the abuse occurs every day for approximately 7-14 years or an average of ten years. So in a period of up to the age of age 18, 33 million kids are abused sexually, physically or emotionally times ten, 365 days per year.
My family was a very stereotypical mayhem, woman enablermolester home, step-father/parental figure in his thirties and abuse occurring daily to my sister and I. So the real figure of child abuse is not 3 million per year (dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com) or 33 million before age !8 but 100 billion (33 million x 365 x 10). Using the accepted figure of 3 million abused kids per year x 365 would be 1 billion abuses per year. And that's based on only ONE abuse per kid per day over one year or ten years.
The government and society don't think outside the box and consider child abuse to be like welfare, unfortunate and impossible to change requiring intervention for the 35% reported. Fathers For Life, fathersforlife.org has an excellent website. Mothers are the Champion Child Abusers: they abuse children at leat twice as much as fathers do. Source: US Dept. of HHS Administration of Children and Families. see
thenononsenseman.com/femme-fishbowl/child-abuse/ Read When She Was Bad by Patricia Pearson.
70.3% of women abuse children personally or with the help of spouses or others. it is widely acknowledged that women murder 70% of all babies, not men. SIDS was the #3 cause of death for babies in 2009 (2453) and there is great debate over crib death as most women sleep with their babies, rather than too many blankets in the crib, etc.
In Hawaii there are 2234 registered sex offenders (Hawaii AG) with a population of 1.3 million (2009, World Almanac). Multiply that times the ration of 238 for the population of the US times 2234 and there are only 400,000 registered sex offenders in the US and 25% of them are missing.
So we're left with with women enablermolesters and all the excuses why they shouldn't be punished.
Historical background and bias
Not the norm
Society's failure to report
Belief that all men are potentially an abuse threat and kids belong with their maternal mother if at all possible
Lies about men by women
No laws that have resolved the problem and little fear of reprisal for abuse
The US is the #1 destination for human trafficking and women are involved in the criminal human trafficking process also
A biased system of diminished capacity defense for men and women
No retro-active provisions in the statutes to keep women on their toes
Saturday, November 20, 2010
Adult Children Of Enabler Molesters World Wide
Mothers are the Champion Child Abusers: they abuse children at least twice as much as fathers do. Source: 2000-20009 US DHHS Administration for Children and Families.
cite:
thenononsenseman.com/femme-fishbowl/child-abuse/; Infanticide or Post Natal Abortion by Walter H. Schneider, founder of fathersforlife.org; Articles by Eeva Sodhi; Feminist Jurisprudence: Equal Rights or Neo Paternalism by Michael Weiss and Cathy Young.
Read When She Was Bad, by Patricia Pearson
As a survivor of an enablermolester household my story is a foundation blcok for change. Statistics and footnotes have their place however numbers of abused children have not had an effect on society's conscience. We don't need to prove how many millions and where world-wide, it's a universally accepted fact. The only thing that differs is the variations of mayhem and abuse.
Fortunately many people are coming forward as adult survivors of enabler molesters with the facts of their abuse as children. Society is not that receptive because child abuse in enabalermolester homes has been the norm for decades. When the Catholic Church and the Boy Scouts started having a sexual abuse melt-down (Catholics have paid over $1 billion in damages) society started to notice.
More important than arguing over statistics is recognizing the human impact and it's effect on society. The source of the problem and the symptoms seem vital to me.
Sources of Child Abuse:
Women allow it
Parental figures, relatives, close friends, but perhaps as many as 70% women and/or men together. Source:
nadcan.cornell.edu/cmrlpostings/msg05440.html; When She Was Bad by Patricia Pearson; Infanticide or Post-Natal Abortion by Walter Schneider, fathersforlife.org
The average abuser is a 31 year old Christian male that abuses a girl under the age of 12.
What are the reasons?
Sex crimes are crimes of power and hate
Hedonism
The abuser was themself abused as a child and became a person that couldn't control unconscionable sexual urges.
Misconception that abuser is mentoring the child
Substance abuse and/or violence
Both spouses abusing
Work place problems
Thinking that the child enjoys the abuse
Pure evil in some cases
Man/Woman hate, spousal problems, mayhem household
Lack of new category of laws punishing enablermolesters
Parental figures, relatives, friends, baby-sitters
The Church
Some symptoms of Child Abuse:
In severe cases, the need for a lifetime care-giver
Fear
Mistrust
Withdrawal
Hate
Mental Disability later in life
Dysfunction
Problems with authority
Sexual identification issues
Depression
Poor Impulse Control
A target of bullies
Stigmatization
Instability
Problems in relationships
Anger
Need for medications
Some Ideas For Punishment:
Court ordered public shaming
Lifetime prison and/or parole and ankle bracelets in severe cases
Death penalty in aggravated assult/murder of children
Loss of professional licenses and driver's license
Add "under penalty of perjury (felony) is their child abuse going on in your home?" on all government paperwork.
Teacher's questionnaires to all parents with the above message.
Felony for anyone with first-hand knowledge that doesn't report it.
Felony for retaliation against snitches.
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Equality: How Women Are As Sexually Dangerous Or More So Than Men
It's time to join the 21st Century and realize that women will never be equal to men in the family, the work-place or the battlefield. However they are pedophiles, they murder 1500 babies per year and they are accessories or participants in crimes that carry the same punishment as murder - child sexual assault.
The Hawaii AG told me that child sexual assault cases are lumped together with other assault cases (by the DOJ / Uniform Crime Reports), meaning that less than 1 million people per year are even charged with child sexual assault and only 35% is reported. There are 60 million children age 14 and under and even the DOJ states that 33% of girls and 14% of boys are sexually molested before age 18. Why doesn't society care about 20 million kids being molested repeatedly, daily? No one wants to talk about it and society blames the government for the problem. Strangers generally molest once while families, realtives, friends, churches and Boy Scouts molest repeatedly.
When a policeman dies or is killed in action, there is a meltdown of activity. There are 16,000 murders per year that are vigorously prosecuted. When will society start to care? When they are charged with a FELONY for not reporting first-hand knowledge of abuse, i.e. relatives and close friends of the parental figures.
Reasons women are as dangerous or more so than men:
There is a love-hate issue over past sexual assault AND 1 in 4 women will be sexually assaulted as adults.
Women are imbalanced, they hate men sometimes, they lie, we let them lie, we call their actions mental health- related or give them breaks when it comes to crime.
They never deserve custody of kids they have allowed to be abused just like a hostage.
Society doesn't believe that women abuse, but 25% of women are child molesters.
Society doesn't believe accusers of women for this reason.
Women lie to get custody and money in family court and get away with it.
Women feel entitled to everything because the law is in their favor.
New category of law: women to be punished with prison and/or parole or lifetime parole with GPS bracelets from now on. Reason: Being a willing spousal participant or a womanenablermolester.
Lifetime parole is already law in about one dozen states and the Supreme Court signed a law in May of this year, that if an inmate is still sexually dangerous after completing their sentence, they don't get to be released.
Women are aware of the abuse or have participated in the abuse and have skated by without punishment for too long.
For the few women who report child sexual abuse right away, there is hope for maintaining custody. What percentage of matenal mothers are married to step-fathers? 4.3% - because of child abuse. Marriage is at an all-time low of 52% meaning child abuse is probably at an all-time high due to a high traffic of different men browsing through the homes.
How's that for equality?
Note: I have left out male abuse of power, which is another whole issue than women avoiding punishment for being accessories to child sexual molestation. Not only do we have to admit that 90% of women know about spousal child sexual moletation, the majority of women child sexual molesters participate with their spouses. This is even more serious than being a womanenablermolester. I have a woman's perspective (abused by both parents) listed in this series called "The Last Taboo" which is insightful.