Child Molesters, Enabler Molesters - Part 5

Women allow child sexual molestation and beating in the home.  Marriage is at an all-time low where 32% of whites are unmarried, 69% of blacks are unmarried and 50% of Hispancs are unmarried.  Only 4.3% of maternal mothers are married to step-fathers.  Women have the power to child sexual molestation and beating by speaking up and/or getting rid of the man, they don't do it.  It may cause financial hardship, but what about the kids being subjected to a hostage state and then a lifetime of confusion and pain.  Even an octopus protects its young. Why is it alright for women to have their cake and eat it too like a hedonist.  Women don't have to stay with the abusive men they have chosen and it's proven that women play the deciding role in whether or not a relationship takes place.  Do women need abusive men?  No they settle for abusive men, spousal abuse, mayhem, molestation, beating and outrageousness.
My mother was an enablermolester who after having 2 kids with my Dad, wanted 3 more with her second husband who she never should have married (she trolled for a professional to marry) because he was a violent, alcoholic, drug-addicted doctor that swore like a sailor and used me as a bartender and punching bag causing brain damage.  I could have lived with my Dad but my Mom never spoke to him and none of the close relatives and friends of the family that were aware of the situation first hand, including molestation of my sister, ever spoke up.  My sister finally ran away.  My step-father committed suicide a few years after the third child was born.
We had all the best of everything and went camping and skiing everywhere and went to fancy restaurants.  We were forced to walk around naked and swear to God that we brushed our teeth and never could eat sweets.  One time I was jay-walking to get candy and got run over by a car.  My sister and I didn't trust our mother and didn't know where to turn in our hostage-like situation.
I love my Mom and have forgiven her but don't understand her reasoning and that she was just doing the best she could and wouldn't do anything differently AND won't talk about it.  Because our family was upper middle class we appeared normal but the abuses never stopped and even when the police came for spousal abuse nothing ever happened.  I stole $20-40 per week form my step-father's fat money clip because I didn't like him.  I got involved in Scouting, became an Eagle Scout (was molested in Scouting), didn't trust people pushing me into college to "have all my questions answered" and due to draft-era, joined the Coast Guard.  I was furious they never let me have a girl-friend and my first was at 19.  After the Coast Guard I took a non-career approach to life, spending 40 years on the road, living in 100s of places and have lived in 70 places here in Hawaii over the last 20 years.  The rest of my family all stayed in the same place basicly.
What I find curious is that women have reason to hate men because of abuse as children and the fact that one in four adult women are sexually assaulted in their lifetime and yet they sit by idly and watch their kids get beaten and molested.  The Man/Woman hate causes 100s of thousands of aggravated assaults every year also.  So history repeats itself, except new laws are on the way - a dozen states have lifetime parole for aggravated child sex assault and/or repeat sex offenders and in the near future women will face stiffer penalties.  Of course women should be punished and lose custody of their kids when they don't immediately speak up about first-hand knowledge of child molestation and beating.
Women enablermolesters are not above the law.  Who causes most child sexual abuse?  Middle class Christians in my opinion and poor are targeted because of more police presence in poor ccommunities however ethnicity and economics are not barriers to drug abuse or child sexual molestation and beating.  We say that only 35% of abuse is reported and we don't really know how many kids are molested except that one in three girls are molested before 18 and one in 6 boys are molested before 18.  Fifty percent of all kids in India are sexually molested.  Our responsibity goes beyond statistics.  We don't speak up about crime and abuse then we blame the govenment for the problems in our society like one million in gangs, and 30% dropping out of high school, and many in prison that were molested as kids.
Women have a choice -  SPEAK UP!
Biblicly women were told what to do by men.  We live in the 21st century with government laws.  Perhaps the majority of this problem started when 16 million messed up veterans came home from WWII and rceived the GI Bill but no counseling.  The Baby Boomers have turned into the Christian Baby Molester Boomers.  And the current wave of returning veterans are VERY messed up.  We need adeaquate CPS workers in ALL communities, and they can't do their job without our help.  It's time for women to take responsibility for being enablermolesters.