Mothers are the Champion Child Abusers: they abuse children at least twice as much as fathers do. Source: 2000-20009 US DHHS Administration for Children and Families.
cite:
thenononsenseman.com/femme-fishbowl/child-abuse/; Infanticide or Post Natal Abortion by Walter H. Schneider, founder of fathersforlife.org; Articles by Eeva Sodhi; Feminist Jurisprudence: Equal Rights or Neo Paternalism by Michael Weiss and Cathy Young.
Read When She Was Bad, by Patricia Pearson
As a survivor of an enablermolester household my story is a foundation blcok for change. Statistics and footnotes have their place however numbers of abused children have not had an effect on society's conscience. We don't need to prove how many millions and where world-wide, it's a universally accepted fact. The only thing that differs is the variations of mayhem and abuse.
Fortunately many people are coming forward as adult survivors of enabler molesters with the facts of their abuse as children. Society is not that receptive because child abuse in enabalermolester homes has been the norm for decades. When the Catholic Church and the Boy Scouts started having a sexual abuse melt-down (Catholics have paid over $1 billion in damages) society started to notice.
More important than arguing over statistics is recognizing the human impact and it's effect on society. The source of the problem and the symptoms seem vital to me.
Sources of Child Abuse:
Women allow it
Parental figures, relatives, close friends, but perhaps as many as 70% women and/or men together. Source:
nadcan.cornell.edu/cmrlpostings/msg05440.html; When She Was Bad by Patricia Pearson; Infanticide or Post-Natal Abortion by Walter Schneider, fathersforlife.org
The average abuser is a 31 year old Christian male that abuses a girl under the age of 12.
What are the reasons?
Sex crimes are crimes of power and hate
Hedonism
The abuser was themself abused as a child and became a person that couldn't control unconscionable sexual urges.
Misconception that abuser is mentoring the child
Substance abuse and/or violence
Both spouses abusing
Work place problems
Thinking that the child enjoys the abuse
Pure evil in some cases
Man/Woman hate, spousal problems, mayhem household
Lack of new category of laws punishing enablermolesters
Parental figures, relatives, friends, baby-sitters
The Church
Some symptoms of Child Abuse:
In severe cases, the need for a lifetime care-giver
Fear
Mistrust
Withdrawal
Hate
Mental Disability later in life
Dysfunction
Problems with authority
Sexual identification issues
Depression
Poor Impulse Control
A target of bullies
Stigmatization
Instability
Problems in relationships
Anger
Need for medications
Some Ideas For Punishment:
Court ordered public shaming
Lifetime prison and/or parole and ankle bracelets in severe cases
Death penalty in aggravated assult/murder of children
Loss of professional licenses and driver's license
Add "under penalty of perjury (felony) is their child abuse going on in your home?" on all government paperwork.
Teacher's questionnaires to all parents with the above message.
Felony for anyone with first-hand knowledge that doesn't report it.
Felony for retaliation against snitches.
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